Never mind all the things that you are going through, YOU STILL CAN! You can is note based upon "you". It's not about self-sufficiency, but about "God's" sufficiency. You CAN because HE CAN and HE DID! Jesus died on Calvary and endured excruciating pain and misery for us. He endured great humiliation and conquered it all! Now you can have the victory is every circumstance in your life. As we live as Christians in this world we will face troubles, pressures, and trials. As they come, ask Christ to strengthen you and CHRIST WILL!