PRAYER is a conversation with God. You don't have to be in a particular place or say particular words but you must pray. Prayer is the breath of the believer. The same way humans need air, believers need to pray. If you will just hear God, things will change around you. The people in your life will know when when you have prayed because not only will your life change but your interaction with them will change and they will be blessed because you spent time in God's face in prayer,
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